I walked my kids into the gym daycare (a very nice daycare that has a very strict sick policy) to see a mom basically pleading with one of the daycare girls. Apparently her daughter was teething. Maybe she’s a newbie, maybe she’s in denial, maybe she’s just selfish but I took one look at the kid and knew it wasn’t teething. After getting my kids situated I turned to see she was putting on her daughter’s shoes so I sucked it up and decided to leave my kids and go workout. I mean, they can get sick by passing a stranger in Target, right? I kept telling myself that it won’t happen (positive thinking on overload), that my kids won’t get sick, and left the daycare. 5 minutes later I walked by again and they were just leaving. After a mini panic attack– and visions of our toddlers swapping spit like a few high school seniors (but with rattles), I once again took a deep breath and let my mind fill with positive, non-sick thoughts and vibes. Just short of knocking on some wood, I went back to my workout knowing that the damage was done (if there was damage to be done) and that tearing my kids from the daycare that they so adore would cause The Meltdown of 2011.
I picked this particular gym for many reasons but one of them was their strict sick policy for the daycare. The daycare girls don’t like getting sick (who does really?), other parents (like me) don’t want their kids to get sick, it’s super clean, and unlike any other gym daycare I’ve ever seen. I thought I hit the Gym Daycare Jackpot and I still think I did.. for the most part.
My kids are sick.
Yes, yes, yes.. it can happen anywhere but does it irk me? You betcha. Why? Because I pay good money, money that I make on my own, to be able to go to the gym and to have a safe environment for my children to play– did I mention it costs extra for the daycare? Per kid! and… I have three of them. I don’t have babysitters… my release is going to the gym. I look forward to going to the gym, during the day, to do the classes that I want to do. I don’t have time at night to go and please don’t tell me that if it’s important I’ll make the time because 1. you’ll sound way too much like my mother and 2. come be a fly on my wall and you’ll see exactly how little time I have.
I’m finally ready and motivated to get back into shape and do it at the gym. Yes we took a walk today instead of going to the gym (see! I found time to still get a workout in)… no, it’s not the same.
How do you feel about these types of scenarios?
Because I feel that I’m doing my part by abiding by the rules and I’m mad. I so wanted to go to my class today but I did what I
thought know was the right thing and I kept my sick child home. I kept him home so he could not only rest and feel better (and possibly not pick up other germs with a compromised immune system) but I didn’t want to get other kids sick. I didn’t blame it on the 5 (yes, FIVE) teeth that he has breaking through his poor little gums right now. I know my child is not feeling well. He has snot (albeit clear and not a ton), a low fever and glassy eyes.. I know my child is not feeling well.
Here are some differences between a sick child and a teething child:
1. Teething mucus is clear saliva and doesn’t run out the nose. Cold mucus is thick and yellow (but can be clear). A nasal discharge usually means an allergy or an infection, especially if accompanied by eye drainage.
2. Teething rarely causes a fever higher than 101 degrees F (38.3 degrees C).
3. Teething may be confused with an earache. Babies pull at their ears during teething, probably because of pain radiating from the teeth to the ears. Some babies just like playing with their ears. Ear-pulling in babies is an unreliable sign. With an ear infection babies usually hurt more lying down and have accompanying signs of a cold.
4. Babies don’t act progressively sicker with teething. As a general rule, when in doubt, have your doctor check it out.
Source: Ask Dr. Sears
Do you follow the Do Unto Others as You Would Have Them Do Unto You rule? I guess it’s not a rule cause everywhere I go… the gym, the park, play dates inside a house (with no windows cracked), indoor play gyms… either some parents haven’t heard of this
rule saying or they don’t give a sh….. and I’m not talking allergies, the early stages of a virus, lingering (non-contagious) symptoms… all the things that you can’t help; I’m talking when you know deep down in your motherly instinctual gut that your child is sick.